Possible Bar to Reenlistment... royally screwed if I can't stay in, I love the Army too much to get out.?

I would not only request to speak with the BN commander, I would consult the jag. However, if your parenthood issues prevented training, you could be facing problems. If there is a pattern of pregnancies prior to deployments, there may be a problem. I am wondering why the bar was initiated so close to reenlistment. If there were a problem early on, he could have initiated separation paperwork prior to this. Is your husband also in the service? If so, there could be issues with your family care plan.